My career began as a Clinical Social Worker in the mental health field, then I did a Masters in Family Therapy and moved into Couple Therapy which extended into a Doctorate in Sexology so have been in private practice for nearly 40 years pioneering Couple and Sex Therapy in South Africa /Africa. Became fascinated with the online world of relationships and sexuality and realised I needed extra skills to manage the trauma of infidelity so trained with Bessel van der Kolk and then Pat Ogden. I remain passionate and deeply curious about trauma , relational and betrayal trauma specifically. This summit will no doubt feed my deep longing for more learning